Self Development

Kick Start Your Morning

Today’s blog contains ideas to start your morning off well; feel in control and physically better.  Give yourself the advantage to listen well to others,  to learn along the way through books and experience, and to finally grow with purpose and a sense of direction.  Provide options and actions for yourself to self improve!

  • Swim, run, or walk.   Just move!   It helps to rev us up and feel alive.
  • Pray, meditate, and think of all the good you can do for others today.
  • Shower.  There is nothing better than “coming to the water” to wake one up and get refreshed.
  • Eat a good breakfast.   Hydrate your body  and begin to fuel it with some protein.
  • Look at your schedule with delight that you are able to do it and move.   This is a joyful opportunity.
  • Pack you backpack or car with needed supplies for the day.  Tuck in the running shoes, extra clothes, books, and cell phone you will be needing. Hopefully you have much of that ready from the night before.
  • Be unique and independent.   Don’t play the blame game when you make a mistake; just admit it and get ahead.
  • Change is essential for betterment of oneself so embrace change as a gift.
  • Don’t let fear stop you by setting limiting beliefs. You can do anything you want to do and you can do it well.

Now is the time to take action.   Have a super day!  “Delight in Living” today and everyday.

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Is That A Calculated Risk?

Hi Hope your week has gone well.  This is Linda Gullo and I am delighted to be with you.   Welcome to Mini Miracles from Minor Moments where a few tiny changes can escalate in your life and create monumental JOYS.  Our small daily habits can add up to make our vibrant and alive.

Mini Miracles from Minor Moments is designed to help you find an insight about yourself.  My plan is to help you like yourself and love life.   Engaging in life and learning what works for you is the first step.  You don’t have to duplicate anyone else’s life or do things in a way that doesn’t fit.

How are you doing as we wind down the month of April and move into May?  Are you on task with your goals for the year?   Do you have them written down?  If you are like me, they are always changing and taking on a new look.  But that is fine as long as we have a plan in place to get things accomplished.

This is Podcast # 51 on Risk Taking.  On the Web page with this Podcast,  there is a picture of a bridge.   Many people are cautious about walking over a bridge, but if it is built well, it is a safe way to get from on side to another.  Constructions are made to be safe. Well I have a few stories for you to enjoy that bring up the topic of CALCULATED RISKS.  The first one is a rather funny one about teenage boys.  The following are about a Business options.

I recently heard a funny story about a young man soon to be 17 years old.  He was staying with his father and a group of soccer friends for a few days in St. Louis for a tournament.   It was a nice break for this Illinois lad.  This was a special group not affiliated with any school activities.

The fellas decided to meet up in the Lobby during a break one evening.  Meantime the dad took a moment to relax and unwind.  With a few minutes to just breath it would be nice.

Well, you know how it is with some teenage boys, they like to be funny,  and so his friends “dared” him to streak through the lobby in just his undies.  Did he do it?   Was the challenge daring enough?  Why, yes, of course the lad took on the dare and ran across the Lobby in his undies.  We must remember that he is a silly 16 year old.   And yes he got caught.  He was escorted up to the room by a hotel staff member in his undies.   You see, his fellow soccer comrades did the obvious.   They hid his clothes!  Why wouldn’t they?

You can imagine the Dad’s face when he responded to the knock at the door.

We all have taken calculated risks in our lifetime.  Think about the ones you have made and what resulted.

I know  a fellow who in his Mid 20’s was working as a Marketing Representative for a large well known Oil Company.   He learned the in’s and out’s of the Gas Station Business and understood the risks involved.   He also had a steady salary, an allowance for traveling expenses and entertaining clients.  His insurance was covered and many other perks large companies can provide.

In a quest though for bigger and better, he opted out of the position and bought into a Franchise from the company.  It was not one the company really liked to see happen.  Company representatives knew so much and had been trained in a special Master’s program.   They hated to see their time and training go to waste.   You can tell me at the end of the story though if their training was really lost.

After all it was a new station and in a “prime” location.  Did he do it?   What did everyone around him think?  Well his family was supportive enough, they wanted him to do what would make him happy.  And so he opted in to the idea.

He became the owner of a 24-hour Service Station on the North Side of Chicago.   It sounded good and he was young and able bodied.  Savings were poured into the business.   At first, the job gave him an adrenaline high while he tested, interviewed and hired people to pump gas and repair cars.   There was ordering to be done for parts, tools to be bought and inventoried, lockers to be set up, vending machines to rent, bookkeeping protocol, and proper identification that The Company insisted upon for all its franchises.   There was to be a Grand Opening with Promotional items that needed to be moved in and counted.

The lines at the gas pumps were full all the time. And the flow of traffic on a busy corner kept everyone hopping.  That was when gas was put in the tank for you and oil levels were checked.

His wife would come in after a full day of teaching school and help with the books.   The bank was set up to work with an armored company to pick up the cash and checks.   Credit card systems were set in place.   It was all consuming and a great deal of work.   Add in the time to clean the restrooms, the bay areas where the cars were worked on, and the endless deliveries of give away promotional articles kept him pretty busy.   So busy in fact that he began to eat poorly.   Although there was activity is was a lot of standing and working.

Then the miseries and mishaps started.   The station owner was held up by gun point one night.  A gun was put to his head. It was a traumatic and difficult issue.  Thank goodness no one was harmed and knowing a police detective in the area helped relieve some anxiety.  But there were police reports to file and concerns about future endangerment.   Maintenance was ongoing and took time.

Tools began disappearing and monitoring the equipment became a never ending job.   There was mentoring to be done and workers to watch. The 45 minute trip home often didn’t happen.  He’d end up sleeping in the car and not shaving.   Things were very trying, because the station was open on the Holiday’s as well.  One year his mother-in-law brought Easter Dinner so the family could still celebrate together.  It made it very hard to be with the family, yet alone his new bride of less than a year.   Money was coming in, but only after all the expenses were cleared and accounted for regularly.

And then one night when he had just gone home to his apartment to relax and sleep, the phone rang.   Someone had run over a pump.  It was mandatory  for him to return and take care of a potential fuel danger.  He had to report the incident for insurance coverage and cover all the bases.  Being the primary source of expertise made it hard for the business to succeed.

Oddly enough the owner was always running out of gas.  In the buzz of business and constantly running to pick up parts or keep things in place, he’d forget to put fuel in his own car.  It became a joke, as his wife was always meeting him somewhere to help him by bringing a gallon or two of gas.  Youth and being easier going was thankfully on their side.

This was a example of calculated risk of taking on a new business at the expense of relationships.   I have to tell you the relationships won out and the Franchise was not happy when the station closed down.   The officials from the company even said, “you can’t do that!”

What they forgot was that the X-Rep of their’s was trained too well and knew the loopholes.   Furnishings and  equipment was picked up immediately by a large truck and put into a building his family owned.  He dissolved the business and moved out within 24 hours of the decision.   Accounts were cancelled, vending machines with cigarettes, sodas, and snacks were picked up. Unfortunately, part time jobs were lost and the couple exhausted most of their savings.     It was an intentional move that was a good good decision.

Thankfully, another job was waiting.  After a short vacation, the couple returned to start again.   Income was assured as the young man returned to a family business that he had been trained in all his life.  To look back at this now many many years later, it was a risk with options set up along the way.   Thank goodness.

Many adults in business take calculated risks all the time.  They venture out with limited funds and try new things.  They don’t always have backup plans. Others invest in stocks that go bust or they try selling new products that soar with great profit.

Sometimes we learn from the mistakes; these become lessons no one could possibly teach us.   In many cases, life is a risk.   It may be for personal decisions, as well as, business.  

One drops out of school only to realize the mistake and has to begin again.   People return in a better state of mind and begin again not only to advance but to shine on the second or third time around.  It reminds all of us that we need to be encouraging and helpful to one another.

Medically medications and treatments for disease may be a gamble that pays off in many more years of life and the joys of living.  But then how much of what we do has guarantees.

Years ago, I embarked on a series of radio ads that were costly.   They did not pay off.   Although I did make a few good friends at the time and learned about an area of marketing I did not know about, I ended up with a theme song.   The return of the investment did not really pay off.   I guess it has helped me understand recordings that I now apply to Podcasting.

Gambling on the odds of something working out well is necessary or we’d make no advancements.  For even mistakes provide clarity and insight to help us in the future.

One of the shows we tend to watch on Sunday nights is the Funniest Home Videos.  The videos are funny, because things just happen when they aren’t expected.  They are so spontaneous.   Sometimes the pranks look they are set ups and I wonder how many people suffer serious injuries.  People don’t always think about the what if’s and that is the bottom line of thinking things through fully and completely.  Being dared to do something can be in fact foolish and have long lasting results in addition to feeling embarrassed!

Well as this week winds down, I hope it has been a good one for you.   If not, there are new tomorrows and opportunities for growth and advancement.   Take the small steps to put you on the escalator of success.   Peace for the week and I will see you next week!

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What Do You Want?

Yesterday I discussed the things we don’t want to catch that may come our way.   But today there are things that are necessary to catch in order to be a success.  Is it winning the lottery, getting a raise, resolving a health issues, or finding a good virtual assistant?  Maybe it is getting credit for making a suggestion in the office that creates a bonus or adds to your reputation?

Catching what we want may help with a few  suggestions.

  • Be present and show up in spirit and on time.
  • Listen, ask questions, and follow through with action.

    Welcome and catch the right things with joy!

  • Do your homework.  Read and research what it is you want.
  • Welcome and catch the right things with joy.
  • Take care of the responsibilities you have and do them well.
  • Stay organized-plan your work and work your plan.
  • Consistency pays off in many forms.
  • Write down what goals you are trying to reach.
  • Place the goals where you will see them.
  • Connect with people who have already become successful.
  • Make the right connections by shopping around and talking to other people.
  • Be with the younger people who are aiming high; their energy is contagious.
  • Continue learning whatever you can even if you don’t think it is important, it will be!

Don’t give up! Whatever small steps you take can be the ones to a bigger and more successful ending.  Be  honest and open with the people and the business you conduct, it always comes back to bless us.  Being authentic is easy!  Just be yourself.

Delight in Living!

 

 

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How Do You Spell Contentment?

So with vacation time coming around for school children and adults as well, people are thinking of going to Disney, driving to see family across country, or planning a summer of local activities.  Where are you going?  What do you plan on doing?  Are you going to see your parents?  Will you fly or drive?   What are your plans?   Will you have kids along?  Well I have a few thoughts for you to make this summer the best yet!

Maybe you’ll be going to an annual event in your neighborhood or doing local events.   Taking a one day trip rather impulsively to Wisconsin, down to Chicago, or to meet a friend for a play may be your mode of enjoying the nice weather.   Perhaps entertaining more or with people you haven’t seen in years?  All of these ideas are wonderful.   Usually they can be economical and scheduled according to the “FREE” days at the local zoo or museum.  Take advantage of them and enjoy the sites!

Why do we vacation?  Are we trying to get away from the day-to-day pressures that take the toil on our health and thinking? And if this is the case, why is that necessary?   I think of past generations who found the weekend picnic or time with family on a Sunday afternoon.   That was their pleasure.  Simple and easy, not so expensive that they would set back the budget.  So let’s take their example and expound on it.   Pick a site and go with a bunch of people for safety and a fun time to a picnic site or a big backyard.   It is fun.  Each person can bring a dish to pass or a fruit to share.   It takes down the stress that so many of us suffer from experiencing daily.

Stay connected with friends is so neat.   Well staying connected with those we value is neat.   We give away what it is we want from others.   It may be time, money, energy, wisdom or ?    We also seek out the wisdom we need to stay efficient.  Find friends and brainstorm.  Making time for others is the best gift we can get.   Blessings and “Delight in Living” today and everyday.

 

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Now Who is Anxious?

Well it happens every month when I have to take Miss Rosy into the vet for her nails to be trimmed!   I don’t know who is really more anxious, is it me or the dog?    In the past, we did our dog’s nails, but since we have had Rosy, I opted to have her nails done.   She is really compliant and usually indifferent.   In the past, I have found the anxiety creeps in when there are other dogs, cats, or animals present.

So today I pulled up and was waiting for the office to empty out when I noticed she was sitting attentively looking out the window.  I saw the staff come to the door and I opened the car door to get out.  Rosy jumped out (I did not have the leash in hand) and she ran to the door waiting for me to open it; I did.   She walked in totally in control and went straight to Dr. Nick’s office to greet him.  I chuckled.  It  surprised me that it went so smoothly and when she was done she nonchalantly jumped back into her seat.

The Bold & The Brave

I began to laugh to myself at how well she knew the procedure.   She even jumped on the elevator table while he greeted her.   We were conversing about family and the coming holiday while she had one paw after the other worked on.  We were out within 5 minutes.   I know for a fact she would have been fussier at home and it would have taken me longer to do.   I am always concerned about clipping too short.

We were home and I was off to my next event in no time.   Anxiety comes into play when we have had some tension about things in the past.   I thought about it and realized I am always a bit anxious about taking our pets in since I don’t know what we will encounter.  With our past dogs, they were bigger and stronger and often had a mind of their own.   Then too with other animals around, one does not know how other pets react.   Sometimes there is barking and the tension comes from the contagious barking.   In today’s case, I think Rosy felt in control.  I did not have her leash in hand, and she seemed more comfortable.  I was however, ready to grab it just in case the situation had suddenly changed.

So here are a few simple things to consider the next time you are apprehensive about doing something like this.  #1. Plan ahead and schedule things when you have plenty of time to spare. It will reduce anxiety when one is not rushed.  #2. Find a doctor for yourself or your pet that is reliable and easy to work with so that there is trust.  #3.  Ask ahead on the phone if you have questions.   In this case, the staff there often will come to the door and welcome one in when things are clear.   #4. If  this is the first time visiting an attorney, doctor, car dealer, or whatever, ask about their procedures ahead of time.   #5. Planning ahead, I always have my check ready so it is a quick exit.  SO whether it is for you going into a new situation, or taking on a new project, get prepared.  It was ease things up quite a bit.    #6.  Look at the bigger picture.   There may still be a tad bit of anxiety, but it can be lessened with a little planning.

Hope this may help you the next time anxiety comes your way.  In the meantime, “Delight in Living” and stay well.  Let the mini miracles like this event bring you continued joy for your day.   It is the little things that add up and make our lives go

 

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Recognizing One Another

Today as we extended the sign of  peace to one another at church, I was surprised to find a friend of mine sitting across the aisle!  I was immediately embraced and felt so good to see her.  When you walk into your house, no doubt if you have a dog, it will be there at your feet wagging its tail and greeting you.   Going to pick up the mail and finding a letter or card from a friend is always a great way to find joy in your day.

In a recent Mini Miracles from Minor Moment Podcast, a Business Acquaintance I have known for some 18 years talked about “RELATIONSHIPS.”   People need people to get through their day.   Whether we like someone or not, they are around us when we go into a store, at church, or at the local post office.   People can make our day wonderful by returning a smile or simply by acknowledging our presence.   Isn’t it great when someone recognizes you or even goes out of their way to help?  I was at a store one day and dropped a few things while fumbling to hold onto my purse.   Another person in line, bent over and handed my the coupon I had dropped.   How very thoughtful they were to even notice my problem.   That is just so kind in this day and age when everyone is in a hurry and almost ignorant of those around them.  How affordable is it to give a few minutes of joy to another person?

How are you doing at recognizing other people?   Do you remember their names or something special about them?   Are you willing to go out of your way to help your neighbor?   I love using Linked-In.   It reminds us that people are celebrating work anniversaries and other accomplishments.  It gives us an opportunity to write a note if we wish to do so.

Do you think social media is good at helping people feel recognized?   Facebook “likes” have for some reason taken a back seat for me.  It seems like a “cop out” when we don’t send the birthday card or make a more intentional effort to recognize others’ Birthdays.   As much as we care about certain things, it is not meaningful to hit a like icon, as much as it is to go out of our way to actually connect with  a person.

Please think about someone else today that could use a smile, a recognition, or a call.   Make your time even more relevant today. Reach out and make their day a great one!   Delight in Living!

 

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Getting Your Foot in the Door

Simple ways to get that job you want may be easier than you think.   It is all about awareness, drive, good attitudes, perseverance, and networking.  

1-  Think about what you are qualified to do and/or be willing to get trained in!  Bone up on your skills asap.  Dress appropriately for the appointment.

2-  Are you busy making friends and staying personally connected with people?  I don’t mean on social media, I mean getting out there and shaking hands kind of relationships.

3-  Smile, and be willing to go through the process of applying and interviews.

4-  Get your resumes ready and printed.   Call and ask people to be your references.   Take down addresses and information the typical applications will ask you.

5-  If you are on line, be sure to answer the questions you are asked appropriately and completely.  Communicate complete thoughts.  Don’t barge in asking for “how much” you’ll be making off the starting gate.

6-  Be ready if you are refused or not replied to immediately.   Keep applying and don’t wait like a lump of coal for action.

7-  Don’t apply to places you are NOT QUALIFIED to hold.  It is a waste of time for you and the employer.

8-  Follow through with drug screening or follow-up interviews.

Put your best foot forward!

9-  This sounds silly, but you are not entitled to a job.   Be courteous and respectful.

10-  Don’t take a job just because a friend is working there.   I see this so much with young people.   It isn’t to  be socializing, but really committed to doing a good job.  This person has jeans on, but they are not what one would wear for an interview.  BEWARE!

11-  If you are luck to get a job don’t start out by looking for the easy way to do it.   Listen, follow instructions, and be a responsible worker.

12-  Congratulations when you land the position you want.    Let it be good for you and the owner.

“Delight in Living” for the opportunity to freely select your opportunities.

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Where Do I Start?

Have you ever experienced that the simplest task turns out to be so hard?  It can be cleaning out a drawer, responding to an email, or typing up an agreement.   It is that same feeling students get when they are taking a multiple answer or True/False test.   All the exceptions in our head pop up and it makes the answer harder than it needs to be!

Well we all face that every day in making decisions.  Learning to be intent, concentrating on specific outcomes, and being realistic take time to develop.  We need to take self-control and discipline ourselves.   A major shortcut to doing this in by developing rituals, following systems, and creating new habits.

So let’s take rituals to begin with as an example in making decisions.   In school, we may start our day with the Pledge of Allegiance or a song?   Maybe in a parochial school, prayer begins the day.  In churches, people may all rise and greet each other to start the service.   At meetings, a gavel or bell may call everyone to attention.  Rituals are defined as a series of actions or type of behavior regularly and invariably followed by someone.   Rituals create chances for being fluid and learning easier.

Next we might create systems and follow them.   Systems are step-by-step procedures created for clarity and completeness.   When a system is followed well, anyone can follow and do it and the outcome should be the same.   When things are deviated from a system, the results are less efficient and incomplete.

There is a  simple way of creating new habits.   It means however, one must create your own steps for doing something well.   It may mean cutting out processed sweets and pastries with the intention of having a piece of fruit instead.   It could mean answering all calls with the same greeting.  Or as I have had to do in the last day, locking my car door in a different manner, so I don’t set the alarm off.   Each thing requires a new habit to replace a previous one.

Setting realistic goals helps us feel accomplished and helps us discern the answer to living a wonderful and productive lifestyle.   A lifestyle we are proud of and feel happy about each and every day.

Our animals learn rituals and live by them.   We also teach them systems.   Have you noticed they know how each person in the house responds differently toward them?   My dog knows what I am about to do, before I even do, on many occasions.   She lays down and waits.   Opportunities for me to teach her new things are always around the bend.  And habits make them easy to train.   It makes us our lives filled with opportunities of growth too.

So think about what you want to accomplish and use these ways to make life easier.  You’ll jump right into projects and get so much accomplished.   Is that something your need to do?   What are the things holding you back?  Are these good things to consider?

Blessings for your day.   Delight in Living!

 

Tie A Knot & Hang On

Tie A Knot and Hang On! 

In times of frustration, insecurity, and lack of knowledge our imaginations and fears can begin to loom around us.  They can paralyze us in so many ways.  Creating ways that hold us in place and keep us from growing and moving ahead.  We fail to help ourselves and those around us in need.  THINGS get knotted up for sure.

The image of a knot in a rope or any other object can conjure up many thoughts.  It shortens the length in the chain, rope, or ribbon.   When one has a fine chain like in a piece of jewelry, it is very hard to undo and yet needs to be untangled.   It would look awful and might even feel sharp around the neck. 

In a big rope made of twine that may be used on the farm, it may become stronger in that part of the rope.  Perhaps it is meant as a place to grasp or to hook onto a piece of equipment.  In the yard, a knot may denote a spot or obstacle to overcome.   Ropes are used in navigation, on ranches, in the homes, and even in the office with cables.

Today I am using the  image of a knot  as a point of reference and thinking of it as a marker for a new beginning.  It could be that place to step on and push off of to lift one up into a new direction.   It is a time to education ourselves more, to put our imagination to rest.  In place be used knowledge to have a better view in life.  Education elevates our thinking, gives us options, and helps us long to learn more and more.   We see that with every piece of wisdom, there is more to be had and investigated.

What is knotted in your life?  Is it a relationship that is messed up with multiple messages.  Is it, because you have made a bad decision and need to untwist things?  You may consider getting outside help.  Is a bad choice or health issues shortening up your life or making you stop in your tracts.   Make sure your knots are intentional and if they are not, then it may be time to consider and repair them.

Have a Blessed and fruitful week.   DELIGHT IN LIVING!

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Spring Forward

Intro by Jim Haisler from Heartland Realtor Organization—thank you Jim!

Good morning, this is Linda Gullo.  And this is Podcast # 48 on Cheering on the Springtime!   Yes it has finally arrived!   Although we had a doable winter and we all made it through, there is something so refreshing and exciting about the Springtime.  Today the birds were singing and the ground smelled so earthy.   I even went to buy grass seed to add into the winter loss.  With the Spring rains this week I expect it to take well.

Welcome to Mini Miracles from Minor Moments where small achievements may become big accomplishments.  Our small daily habits add up to make our lives simply wonderful or maybe not so pleasant if they are bad habits.   We make them whatever we want them to be.  It’s the wee little issue of being consistent that creates a problem for many of us.

Mini Miracles from Minor Moments is designed to help you find an insight about yourself.  My plan is to help you like yourself and love life.   Engaging in life and learning what works for you is the first step.  You don’t have to duplicate anyone else’s life or do things in a way that doesn’t fit.  Perhaps some people learn this early on and others not so well.

This past week, I’ve been thinking about how hard is it to get to know ourselves.   It takes so many trials and errors to find out out how to learn something new.

This last week I have been addressing Quickbooks on line.  My CPA encouraged me to do this.  I was reluctant at first.  Yes it is different than I am used to, but I set out to learn  it, as soon as, possible and it is happening.  Feels like a good and doable way to keep up to date with things.
When we have have a plan of attack to accomplish something, it really helps to get things done.

You’d think one would figure out the process for dealing with issues around us, but that is what life is all about.   It is a journey, to be sure.  One thing seems to get resolved and another one pops up.  It presents us with options and choices.   As people get older, it takes more time to learn things and I see so many retired people just give up.   Especially with the technology that is looming all around us.   It takes almost a life of its own.

This week on Public Radio I heard that we waste a lot of time making choices.   Well choices have  to be made, but the clearer our vision about what fits us and the values we hold, make so many decisions easy.      Perhaps that is why having vision and holding to the truths one knows is so relevant.  All these baby boomers who are around hold valuable wisdom for the younger people.   Yet so many younger people want to do it themselves –finding their own way.    They get impatient and annoyed with the older people.   Think about that for a minute.

I must interject a story here about two older couples that were living around me as a child.   One couple lived next door to us.   The man was scared to death after having a heart attack and hardly moved for fear it was his last move.  He’d move from lawn chair to the house and back and let his wife do everything and she did.  He seemed to deteriorate from lack of movement.  But so much has transpired in 50 years when it comes to heart disease.  I bet today he’d have rallied back.

The other couple was always working around their home; they had no children, but seemed to appreciate my brother and me.   Cleaning the yard up was their hobby.   He was a hard working, wrinkled, but such a jovial man; she was a gardener and sweet lady who always found time to talk.  She’d have me pick her flowers to intentionally give them to my mom.   He’d would always appear at my dad’s side to help advise him on how to fix the car or put in the concrete sidewalk.   He was ready to lend him parts.  Odd, how after all these years I have thoughts about them.  And I remember they came here in their youth from Sweden.

Because older people were living around us, I learned to have great respect for them.  The value of life was so preserved and rather sweet.   People helped the elderly and checked on them.  I am not sure that is the case anymore.   And that is very sad to me as I become one of those older people.

We all have to be dealing  with Transitional issues. Who wants to stagnate and do the same thing all the time?   Not I.  Everyone is entitled to have guidance through these times and it can be fun along the way.

Think about the  good friends who help you?  Do they get gas in your car?  Help pay your bills?   Listen to your crabbing?   Tag along at the show when you want to see a new movie?   Do they call you?   Think well about these people and if you are the one always doing for others, what is that telling you?

We all are in different places in life.   Look at the typical 6 year old child.   Developmentally they are in joyful and looking for fun in different places than an 11 year old.  They  have different likes and talents.   Some just tag along with the older siblings, some are busy with creative projects, and others are just playing.

Last week I reminded you that we are all in fact, the first teachers of our children from the time they are born.  We are the ones who need to help them and guide them along.    When they make poor decisions, we may not be able to change the circumstances.

But now look at yourself and think of how you are parenting yourself?  Are you being honest with yourself? 
Take a look at a picture of yourself from this time in a past year. Were you highly motivated to do something different.   Now if you don’t have a physical picture, just think about it.  What is the script you are writing for your life?   What will you be remembered for doing?  What do you really want?

Look at your own potential  and what is the baggage you need to lose?  Is it a bad habit?  Perhaps extra weight?  Sleeping more than you do? How does it affect carrying the same ideas on and on?

Transform your year for yourself and those around you!   It is just the beginning of April.   A quarter of 2017 is past already.   Pursue your dreams and continually set new goals for yourself.  Talk things through and hear yourself say what you are thinking.   Create a space for self development and take the opportunity to forgive, dance, and live fully.

Have a great weekend and week ahead as you step forward.   Remember that a “single step may put you on the escalator of success!” Have a great weekend  and I will see you next week.  Start collecting you mini miracles for ongoing success.

Dwell in the possibility of being better to yourself.  In addition to Counseling, Linda is now offering Online Coaching.  Her specialty of Personal Development for Business Leaders helps all size businesses.   Managers and Entrepreneurs can take themselves to the next level with this opportunity.   In the long run you will be more successful and confident in  your skills and personal development. 

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