This tree is located next to our garage. When it was young it was traumatized by a wind and snowstorm. Where it is split actually was bent onto the ground. My husband was convinced he could save it and with a couple of bungee cords stood it up again. That happened nearly 40 years ago. It has grown and grown providing shade and its unique shape to our backyard. I really have come to see this tree as a comforting corner of the property.
It is hard to keep a smile on our faces like the one this Teddy Bear has when things don’t go well.
We need to be propped up and nourished by our own “self talk”. The never give up attitude becomes important whether we are dealing with medical issues, raising children, looking for employment, or struggling in a relationship. The input from professional people can help keep us thinking clearly. It is important to give others feedback so they can be helpful. People don’t know you need help until you ask. You may look so self sufficient that no one is aware of your needs.
Today I ran across some letters from a missionary priest. He died about several years 
ago,
but used to write to me every couple of weeks. I have kept a few of his letters which were always so encouraging. I wish I had held on to more of them. Receiving personal letters is becoming a rare thing these days. To think that he took time out of his busy work day was touching. It also was good to see his handwriting.
I start each year with the idea of writing to more people via snail mail, but lose momentum as the year goes forward. I plan to start again with a note in the Christmas Cards I send out to friends and family.
1- Never give up on yourself or encouraging others. Ask for help when you need it.
2- Enjoy the handwritten love letters, cards, and encouraging moments and remember to return the favors or pass on the encouragement to the next generation.
3-Find and embrace the people and things in life that are meaningful to you; those that you really love to be with. Meditate on the richness these provide and how they have made you the person you are today!
Enjoy your day!