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Giving Yourself Permission: Helpful or Harmful?
In this episode, I explore how giving ourselves permission can be empowering, but also risky. I talk about how it’s easy to bend rules and take shortcuts when emotions lead the way. I share how true growth comes from thoughtful decisions—ones rooted in faith, values, and honest reflection. I also speak from personal experience, including what I’ve learned from my patient little dog, Pearl, and how she reminded me that waiting can be wise.
Sometimes we need rest. Other times we use “I deserve this” as a cover for avoidance. Learning to check in with trusted mentors or reflect prayerfully can help us pause before taking action that might not serve us well in the long run.
Key Takeaways
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Giving yourself permission can be healthy or harmful—it depends on the why.
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Skipping small responsibilities can easily turn into disconnection or regret.
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Wise counsel from friends, mentors, or your faith community helps guide better choices.
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Patience—whether learned from a person or a pet—can lead to better timing in decision-making.
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Emotional decisions (especially when tired, angry, or sad) may not reflect your true values.
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Giving yourself permission should support growth, not serve as a loophole for bad habits.
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Align your intentions with small actions to keep moving forward, even in hard times.
Reflect and Respond
Ask yourself:
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Have you recently given yourself permission to do something?
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Did it come from a place of peace or from emotion?
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Was that decision consistent with your long-term goals or values?
Final Thoughts
Let today be a reminder that permission isn’t about guilt or indulgence. It’s about responsibility and self-respect. Take care of yourself, speak the truth, and don’t be afraid to consult those who care about you. Each small decision can be a mini miracle when it’s made with care.
Until next time, stay well and keep noticing the little things that move you forward.
—Linda