Gratitude 101
My mother-in-law was always very thankful even though she had plenty. Her favorite line was “thanks loads” and she was sincere. She was also good at writing notes of appreciation. She died at 94, but seemed to lead a full and vibrant life. I think her attitude helped greatly.
Being grateful goes a long way in shaping ones’ attitude. It helps us put things into perspective. We are not as inclined to compare or judge other people when we focus on all that we already have obtained. We are aware of all the good things that happen in life.
It is easy to take things for granted. Most of us are fortunate to have shelter and a bed to sleep in each night. When I see people jobless and struggling to live one month or day at a time, it is hard to comprehend. Our local church is having a “Sleep Out for Shelter Fundraiser” this coming weekend. I suspect the parking lots will be loaded as it was last year too. That tells me that many people are concerned for their neighbors and the less fortunate.
We don’t have to give or receive presents to “feel grateful” although We don’t have to give or receive presents to “feel grateful” although it is nice to receive even the smallest token of appreciation! It “feels good” to give, as well.
We take our spouses and children for granted also. We just assume they will be there to take up what needs to be done. Be appreciative and offer thanks for their efforts. It goes a long way in setting an example for others, your offsprings, and in keeping us close to one another.
A “spirit” of gratitude is contagious. We hear others say “thank you” and it reminds us to also acknowledge the goodness of people. I find it takes so little to tell someone that they are appreciated when they do something well for you. I just had some cabinet changes made in my office. The carpenter went out of his way to make things perfect. I hope my appreciation was shining through.
I’ve noticed adults telling their kids to say “please” and “thank you”, but as adults we forget to use these words. We don’t have to give or receive presents to “feel grateful” although it is nice to receive even the smallest token of appreciation!
It “feels good” to give, but givers need to accept gifts of time, talent, and material things, as well. We had a neighbor who’s dog ran away and I found it. He was so grateful that he gave us a basket of fresh large juicy strawberries in thanksgiving. Over the years whenever we did the slightest thing, he’d respond with a gift of appreciation. When it came to repaying him for favors though, he wouldn’t take anything. It was difficult for us to reciprocate.
Some blessings are not apparent to us as they are happening. These hidden facts are revealed after the fact and when it is seemingly impossible to give thanks. It is then we must forward the gifts we have been given to others. We must continue the chain of giving.
Good attitudes and gracious people help to make the world go around. Let’s all try to participate.
“Thanks to everyone who helps me, I do appreciate you!”
Being observant of even a smile teaches us all to “Delight in Living”!